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An unpleasant encounter in Sherwod Forest this evening

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Davey B
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Thanks for your advice I am limited as to where I can walk within a reasonable distance from home especially cycling there. I’ll try later tonight and go from there...

 
Posted : September 11, 2018 4:57 pm
Davey B
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Last night I went out on my usual walk that I had not been on for 2 weeks from advice received here (Sunworshiper). I went a little earlier as the nights are drawing in and when I was about half way around I was met by the labrador previously encountered and the woman who was on her own. She asked how I was and where I had been as she had not seen me for a while and she now regularly walks her dog in this area when her husband is out with his mates twice a week. I made some excuse and she said she thought I was avoiding her (I was) then asked if it would be ok if she walked with me like last time when I said ok she said naked.
To cut a long story short she continued the rest of my route naked and asked if I would walk her back to where her clothes were and where her car is parked which I did as it was getting quite dark at this point.
Our chat was about naturism and general conversations, I didn't feel threatened by her presence or anything else - was I right to do this or allow it to happen. She said she would like to give it a go again and would I mind her tagging along I've just said it's up to you but on reflection is it a wise move. Any advice is most welcome - thank you in advance.
Davey

 
Posted : September 23, 2018 5:34 pm
Elbert
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It is difficult for me to give advice as due to things that have happened to me in the past I suffer from serious trust issues particularly with the opposite sex.

My reaction would be to go somewhere else in future, as I would be uncomfortable walking naked with this woman, expecting her husband to appear any minute.

As a compromise perhaps in future you could make sure you have a trusted friend accompanying you, or at the very least observing from afar. That way you'd have a witness if anything untoward were to occur.

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Posted : September 24, 2018 12:31 am
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tribalbrit
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If it were me I would meet up with her again and explain that although you appreciate the company you feel uncomfortable with the situation due to the reaction of her husband when you first met and are worried what is reaction would be when he finds out, and he will eventually. Cant see him being very happy.
If she doesn't accept this, go elsewhere. 

 
Posted : September 24, 2018 6:20 pm
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Davey B
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Many thanks for all the advice received here's an update. I went for my usual walk on wednesday and when I arrived the lady in question was waiting in her car with her dog. I explained that although it was nice to have company I didn't think it was a good idea that she continued as how would her husband view it after the last time. She didn't agree with most of what I said and said she felt more alive and had a sense of freedom something for herself with no constraints and asked where else she could go and I directed her to BN, the skinny dip and here but on hindsight the latter was a bad idea I think. She didn't accompany me and I continued on my own and I thought that was it...
Last night there was no cars and I thought great she has listened and I can continue here as usual. When I was nearly half way around here comes the woman and her dog and another woman both naked though the other woman was practically squirming on the spot. She pointed out that she and her friend wanted to try this and as I have been the only other person she has come across it was a safe bet. We continued for the rest of the walk and her friend relaxed a lot more and said she was loving it and it was a thrilling experience and could get used to this. I walked them back to their car and left feeling like did that just happen, I go here most nights and now this. I sort of feel ok with it but is it right on my part.
Davey
P.S. Sorry to have pinched the OP's subject

 
Posted : October 7, 2018 9:12 pm
MartinM
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Although it sounds unusual, it seems as though you have made two converts, one who was clearly a natural naturist who jumped at the chance when she first saw you and seems to understand immediately the naturist sense of freedom. She sounds as though she has tried to assuage your concerns by bringing along a friend so that there would be no concerns of what you might have have got up to if husband found out.

The issue with her husband is clearly a concern, but was it just an automatic defensive reaction and had he come around on reflection? As regards her, you should go on your instincts, but she sounds genuine. But you should discuss his reaction and her presumed need for secrecy from him. What would happen if he found out?

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Posted : October 8, 2018 8:01 am
Surreynudes
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I have been following this thread on and off but must confess I had to re-read a few bits to make sire it was the same thread.

Whilst very strange circumstances, What an amazing outcome from essentially an awful ordeal.

I am incredibly keen on starting naturist walking but my partner very much "naturist venue and beaches only"

I am a little worried as due to my disability, I stick out like a sore thumb. this is not supposed to be a poor me disability thread, merely the fact that hiding missing limbs with no clothes on is a black art haha.

There are a few places near me (Bordon) I am convinced would be ideal for naturist walking. My only issue is meeting the "angry man club"

I guess the best thing to do is find a route walk it a few times. If I see vast quantities of people change the route.

 
Posted : October 8, 2018 11:32 am
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Before embarking on a nude walking programme, it helps nerves and planning to do a clothed recce or two, preferably at a similar time of day to your naked plans. You can see how many other people may be about, check out sight lines from houses and roads, and generally get a feel for the place. When you're comfortable you can pluck up the courage and go for it. Once you've tried it a few times it gets easier and needs less preparation.

As for a missing limb, if someone sees you naked they'll probably be so fixated on the nudity they won't notice anything else about you!!  😀

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Posted : October 8, 2018 12:46 pm
Davey B
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I went for my usual walk on wednesday and on arrival the two women were there both naked with dog. As we walked around I got straight to the point and asked how her husband would feel if he knew she was here. She said that since that day she has been walking around the house naked more often much to his delight and he has even been naked outside with her in their garden. He has allegedly said that he got a shock and didn't know what to say, where to look or what to do and if he saw me again would apologise. She has said she will tell him eventually and because her friend was with her she thought it was more appropriate and sort of ok...
Her friend said she had been buzzing since Saturday and her colleagues had remarked on how much more energetic she seemed at work and she couldn't wait to get home and strip off and feel free. When her friend asked her to accompany her naked in a field with a naturist she thought it would be a laugh but it couldn't be further from the truth and she feels more empowered than ever before and thinks that maybe one of her friends would like to come along on Saturday too and would that be ok, I said yes ok.
So it seems all is ok and perhaps some more people will be joining this forum after all.
Davey

 
Posted : October 12, 2018 3:49 pm
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pantherman66
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Good news to hear the husband has embraced the naked ethos. I look forward to reading how many more females you are able to attract !!

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Posted : October 12, 2018 5:26 pm
Davey B
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As long as I don't end up being the pied piper lol

 
Posted : October 12, 2018 7:50 pm
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Hi Davey

It's seems as if you have managed to successfully negotiate your way around what could have been a potential mine field.

Hope you manage to have many more pleasant walks with your new naturist friends.

 
Posted : October 12, 2018 10:32 pm
Davey B
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It has happened naturally thank goodness. Looking to try and extend the route a little more but the further I go the earlier I have to go out as the nights are drawing in.
Davey

 
Posted : October 12, 2018 11:15 pm
Borris
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The weather has been pleasantly, If unseasonably, mild this weekend I’m just wondering whether naturist walks in Sherwood are still happening and whether there are any updates to the above.

 
Posted : February 24, 2019 2:10 pm
gildo
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I have been walking regularly and I was out yesterday and today. Nothing untoward to report.

 
Posted : February 24, 2019 10:20 pm
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