To be honest i agree that i have a pretty wonderful looking gf ..and utterly understand that folk will look at her naked and i can see why...what i'm saying is its not that nice to have to fully clothed blokes with sun glasses set up camp very obviously at the bottom of her towel then sit there blatantly looking at her vagina ...that's what i'm saying not random fellow or woman glancing over and appreciating. .or not...the nice view....its fine....but pervy gawking leering voyeurs pee me off...and why shouldn't they....its utterly different to the usual and human reaction that come from fellow naturists. ..nudists whatever....please don't judge me saying its all my insecurities. ...its bloody not actually....its i font want my relaxing. ...wonderful trip to a beautiful natural lake to spend time with my gf ruined by this overtly sexual attention...one even had his hand down his shorts....come on...that's just not on...

People can only go on what information you posted originally.
Now you have put up the full story it comes across as different from dog walkers going past with sunglasses on

..... its not that nice to have to fully clothed blokes with sun glasses set up camp very obviously at the bottom of her towel then sit there blatantly looking at her vagina ..........

okay.... This is an evolution to your initial posts saying passers by. I suggest you take along a large bag or wind break. If they setup as you said put said thing in the way to block their view. If they are really obvious and there is plenty of other space you can stare them out or start to photograph them. If it annoys them and they piss off, great. If they get cross you can stop.

All in all don't let them ruin your day. Better is to get her to say to them they are being inappropriate as it's less man-man macho bullshit.

One question though...... what if the perpetrator was also nude? Would that change your opinion?

Tony (2)

..... its not that nice to have to fully clothed blokes with sun glasses set up camp very obviously at the bottom of her towel then sit there blatantly looking at her vagina ..........

okay.... This is an evolution to your initial posts saying passers by. I suggest you take along a large bag or wind break. If they setup as you said put said thing in the way to block their view. If they are really obvious and there is plenty of other space you ca
stare them out or start to photograph them. If it annoys them and they piss off, great. If they get cross you can stop.

All in all don't let them ruin your day. Better is to get her to say to them they are being inappropriate as it's less man-man macho bullshit.

One question though...... what if the perpetrator was also nude? Would that change your opinion?

Tony (2)

Just tell them to F#£% Off.

As Simon and others have said there is a massive difference between your original post and the update, obviously my initial reply would have been very different to your second explanation. We have not experienced this type of thing so I cannot comment from first hand experience.
Looking I can accept, even if it's blatant and from clothed blokes, beyond that I would take action.
I like the idea of turning the tables and photographing them rather than confronting, in fact most phones/DSLR's now have video capability, it's probably best to use that, it will have more 'evidential value' should they turn nasty and will make it more obvious what they are up to. Masturbating can and usually is considered enough to prosecute for indecency, just because it's on a naturist beach shouldn't make a difference especially if you can show kids were around.
All that said, I stand by my earlier views, even if they are probably the basis for a different thread...

sorry should have been more clear ....apologies.

If he were nude too....well ....theres a kind of balance there...but again if behaviour was more than just casual glance or two....and was down right vouyeristic perving i would take steps suggested. ....

wind break good idea

she did tell off a Romanian guy....that worked as was less confrontational. ....its not macho bullshit though....its ..wanting to enjoy nature naturally without having to deal with inappropriate sexual behaviour ....As folk have said there are places for that...

dont get me wrong im not a prude we love sex and sexuality and uts part in nature...but i dont like guys pornifying my gf...thats just shit...

I like what Sisco wrote above. We have come to this way of bathing fairly late in life, and after being married for many years. We are very comfortable with each other, and my wife has recently lost weight, which has built up her confidence enough to agree to our first naturist holiday this year. We have a relationship where neither will be offended if the other makes a compliment about a member of the opposite sex, and she knows that I am extremely proud of her for training and losing weight, and for getting naked on holiday. She's bought clothes recently that I have never seen her in - mini skirt, short tops etc, and I love that she has the confidence to do it - and she knows it.
Honestly - if another guy wants to look at her - that's fine with both of us, but there's a line to be drawn somewhere in how close they get etc.
She knows how proud I am of her - and I think it's added something to our relationship.