Hey Everyone,
My story is not so exciting...
Always wanted to be a naturist, love being naked.
When I had my own place, I barely worn any clothing.
But couldn't practice it on beaches, where I really wanted to, because of my pevious partners. None of them where confident enough to get naked next to other people.
Recently got single again and finally I could start taking my clothes off.
Unfortunately I am well dressed in the house where I live, because I am renting a room here 🙂 Don't want to get it awkward... 🙂
So, went to the beach for the first time 2 days ago, an unofficial beach near Christchurch, saw some naked people, so I thought I arrived to the right place.
It was an amazing experience the sun on my skin, the breeze. I was a little nervous at first, but today for the second time it felt completely natural.
Can't wait to make some friends here, so we can go and enjoy the sun, bike riding or who knows what together.
Thanks for reading 🙂
Just wait until you have tried naked swimming - that is even better.
JOhn
Do not do unto others as you would that they should do unto you. Their tastes may not be the same.
George Bernard Shaw, Maxims for Revolutionaries
Glad you enjoyed it geza12, a beach is a good place to start 8)
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I have the same problem with my wife - she doesn't want to visit places for naturist people 🙁 I am thinking to go sometime without her knowledge:)
I do know some men do visit naturist establishments/places without their partners knowledge and I think that's rather sad.
We had a member who used to visit our club and even wet his trunks in the sink to give the impression of just visiting the baths.
When he suddenly died his family found his membership card and contacted the club. Members attended his funeral and were thanked by the family. Naturism wasn't actually an issue, it was a perceived one.
You know your other half and its not for us to suggest what you do. In my own case I told her it was something I needed to experience and off I went. It wasn't the nudity, rather it broke up a weekend evening. In the event after a while she joined me, and is now a committee member. It can get better, don't insist she comes, remember "softly softly catchee monkee."
Good luck
Davie 8)
I asked her not long time ago " would you like to go on nude beach some time "? She answered " NO , YOU GO BY YOUR OWN IF YOU WANT " So what should I do then? I will ask her again another time but if she doesn't want - she just doesn't want. If so,should I stay and do nothing? And what if after 10 years we split up, then this secrifate would be for nothing isn't it? And yet this is my life and want to live it as I want and not as she wants me !!! Thank you Davie 🙂
Mariqnski - Why not offer to buy her a spa day at Clover Spa?
JOhn
Do not do unto others as you would that they should do unto you. Their tastes may not be the same.
George Bernard Shaw, Maxims for Revolutionaries
Very good idea:) I already though about this and probably that will be my next step 🙂 Thank you:)
unofficial beach near Christchurch
Would that be Hengistbury Head ?